We need to tell him what's going on. I kind of thought about it and maybe it would be best if just one of us did it, and then let him decide if he wants to talk to the other, or both of us together.

[ Sigh. He's such a precious baby... ]

I just don't want to make him feel cornered or pressured by us both being there. I don't care who does it, I just don't want to risk hurting him in the process!