"Caring for people is fine," Lloyd says. "Working to make the world a better place, finding ways to improve people's lives and happiness - I think that's great! But none of those things mean you have live for everyone else. Your life is yours, and your happiness should be yours, too. You can still help other people and make them happy without giving all of yourself to them, too."

Colette had thought that way too, and she was wrong. Maybe Zelda isn't giving up her life for the world, but it's still the same principle.